MESSAGE
DELIVERED IN PEOPLE’S REPUBLIC OF TOGO BY MASTER ADISU-KUWADAH
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.ATTITUDES
FOR A SUCCESSFUL AND A FULFILLED LIFE.
Each
of us has unique qualities that give us our own identity. However,
encounters with different people and attitudes surrounding the environment we
live in, our own unique identity sometimes lead us to mediocre or commonly
known “average”. It’s a state wherein we become just part of the
crowd that we couldn’t showcase our true great talent and self.
What
we neglect to recognize is that,
“Attitude
is also what makes a person stands out and be successful“.
Take
time to reflect and answer these questions:
- How many famous and successful people do you know?
- What makes them famous and successful?
In
my personal journey towards finding my own definition of success in life, I’ve
read various biographies and books about the people who’ve achieved great
success in life. I do this because I want to learn from their attitudes
and habits in order to apply them in my own life. Hoping that sooner or
later, I’ll achieve the level of success I aim for myself.
I
have actually “Attitudes of Successful People” which features the attitude of
success that brought about the great achievement of people who’ve already
succeeded. Some of these people are the following:
The
Attitudes of Successful People study series is continuously done every month.
And I hope to continue learning from various successful people until the
end of my days on earth here.
In
my study of successful people’s attitude, I was able to answer the reasons why
successful people stands out. Most successful people apply good habits,
principles and attitudes in their daily activities. And those attitudes
include the following:
1. The Power of Thoughts
While
most of us believe that life is a destiny, successful people,
however, knows that life is more of a choice. And such choice
comes from our thoughts. Thoughts are the core of our life
because it’s where everything else begins. Thus, successful people
are careful of their thoughts.
2. Importance of Wants
As people
grow older, the more they neglect the value of dreaming and being specific of
what they want. They tend to live life as it comes without really knowing
what to happen tomorrow. But like toddlers,
successful people know what they want, including how and when they want to
have it.
3. Faith to Dream and Think Big
Successful
people have deep faith, that strong belief of the possibility of their dreams
to exist regardless of what the other people will say and the circumstances
that they will face. For remember, all the things we have now, like the
iPod you’re listening to, we are all just some crazy ideas and dreams of
somebody who believed it can happen.
4. Takes Action
A
dream without action is nothing but a sleep dream. Successful people
moves with the dreams. They do not let time passes them by, they
act. And now will always be the perfect time to act.
5. Knows How to Prioritize
Successful
people knows that time is their most important asset. For a time wasted
is equivalent to a dime and life wasted. And as such, they value knowing
and doing what’s important. They do not try to accommodate everything;
instead, they act on something that is included in their priorities and say no
to those that are not as important.
6. Faces the Brutal Facts
Successful people
know that life isn’t perfect. They recognize that success comes from
multiple failures. And instead of giving up because of their fears, like
failure, they have strong courage to face their fears and accept the
brutal facts with the end of success in their minds.
7. Can Rise Up From Adversity
Successful people
know how to stand up even after multiple failures. They do not let their
first, second, third and hundred tenth failures to stop them from
believing with their dreams and wants. They always dust off and try
again.
8. Admires Successful People
What commonly
happens is when we see successful people, we tend to have resentment and be
envious. Successful people, however, admire and listen to other successful
people. They have this open mind and humble heart to start as a
beginner and learn from the success of others.
9. Continuous Learner
Most of us stops
learning after graduation from college. We tend to think we already have
it all after getting our diplomas. However, life is constantly changing.
Successful people crave to learn and learn more. They read
books; attend seminars and etc to keep them updated with the changing world.
10. Grateful Attitude
While most of us
complain on how hard and miserable life is, successful people on the other hand
have grateful attitude towards life. Their optimism gives them the right
attitude to accept hardship and to sail their way to success being happy
regardless.
Now it’s for you
to reflect and ask yourself, Do you have the attitude to be
successful?
Don’t worry if
currently you don’t, you always have today to start learning and adapting the
success attitudes of successful people. Remember,
Attitude
is a little thing that makes a big difference. ~Winston Churchill
Positive attitude helps to cope more
easily with the daily affairs of life. It brings optimism into your life, and
makes it easier to avoid worry and negative thinking. If you adopt it as a way
of life, it will bring constructive changes into your life, and makes them
happier, brighter and more successful. With a positive attitude you see the
bright side of life, become optimistic and expect the best to happen. It is
certainly a state of mind that is well worth developing and strengthening.
Positive
attitude manifests in the following ways:
Positive thinking.
Constructive thinking.
Creative thinking.
Expecting success.
Optimism.
Motivation to accomplish your goals.
Being inspired.
Choosing happiness.
Not giving up.
Looking at failure and problems as blessings in disguise.
Believing in yourself and in your abilities.
Displaying self-esteem and confidence.
Looking for solutions.
Seeing opportunities.
A positive attitude leads to happiness and success and can change your whole life. If you look at the bright side of life, your whole life becomes filled with light. This light affects not only you and the way you look at the world, but also your whole environment and the people around you. If it is strong enough, it becomes contagious.
The benefits of a positive attitude:
Helps achieving goals and attaining success.
Success achieved faster and more easily.
More happiness.
More energy.
Greater inner power and strength.
The ability to inspire and motivate yourself and others.
Fewer difficulties encountered along the way.
The ability to surmount any difficulty.
Life smiles at you.
People respect you.
Negative attitude says: you cannot achieve success.
Positive attitude says: You can achieve success.
If you have been exhibiting a negative attitude and expecting failure and difficulties, it is now the time to change the way you think. It is time to get rid of negative thoughts and behavior and lead a happy and successful life. Why not start today? If you have tried and failed, it only means that you have not tried enough.
Developing a positive attitude that will lead you to happiness and success:
- Choose to be happy.
- Look at the bright side of life.
- Choose to be and stay optimistic.
- Find reasons to smile more often.
- Have faith in yourself and in the Power of the Universe.
- Contemplate upon the futility of negative thinking and worries.
- Associate yourself with happy people.
- Read inspiring stories.
- Read inspiring quotes.
- Repeat affirmations that inspire and motivate you.
- Visualize only what you want to happen.
- Learn to master your thoughts.
- Learn concentration and meditation.
Following even only one of the above suggestions, will bring more light into your life!
Positive thinking.
Constructive thinking.
Creative thinking.
Expecting success.
Optimism.
Motivation to accomplish your goals.
Being inspired.
Choosing happiness.
Not giving up.
Looking at failure and problems as blessings in disguise.
Believing in yourself and in your abilities.
Displaying self-esteem and confidence.
Looking for solutions.
Seeing opportunities.
A positive attitude leads to happiness and success and can change your whole life. If you look at the bright side of life, your whole life becomes filled with light. This light affects not only you and the way you look at the world, but also your whole environment and the people around you. If it is strong enough, it becomes contagious.
The benefits of a positive attitude:
Helps achieving goals and attaining success.
Success achieved faster and more easily.
More happiness.
More energy.
Greater inner power and strength.
The ability to inspire and motivate yourself and others.
Fewer difficulties encountered along the way.
The ability to surmount any difficulty.
Life smiles at you.
People respect you.
Negative attitude says: you cannot achieve success.
Positive attitude says: You can achieve success.
If you have been exhibiting a negative attitude and expecting failure and difficulties, it is now the time to change the way you think. It is time to get rid of negative thoughts and behavior and lead a happy and successful life. Why not start today? If you have tried and failed, it only means that you have not tried enough.
Developing a positive attitude that will lead you to happiness and success:
- Choose to be happy.
- Look at the bright side of life.
- Choose to be and stay optimistic.
- Find reasons to smile more often.
- Have faith in yourself and in the Power of the Universe.
- Contemplate upon the futility of negative thinking and worries.
- Associate yourself with happy people.
- Read inspiring stories.
- Read inspiring quotes.
- Repeat affirmations that inspire and motivate you.
- Visualize only what you want to happen.
- Learn to master your thoughts.
- Learn concentration and meditation.
Following even only one of the above suggestions, will bring more light into your life!
Today, we will feature a new man of success that we can learn from and
be inspired of.
The person I will
introduce to you in this week, “Attitudes of Successful People” blog
series, is a man with a vision that is closely similar to my own. This is why I
took time and opportunity to get to know the attitudes he kept intact to
achieve the success he is now reaping. My intention is to inspire and
motivate us all, that wherever and whatever place we came from, we too, can
create positive changes and successes in our life, if we are just willing to do
so.
Jay McLean is a Self-Made
Millionaire, Business Coach, Marketing Strategist, Best Selling Author,
Empowerment Speaker, Internet Marketer, Real Estate Developer and Programmer of
Wealth Creation. He is the founder of the website, Life Master
Now He is one of the well-known
business coaches worldwide.
He is now at the
prime of everything in his life – business, money, prosperity, relationship,
lifestyle and the capacity to be a blessing for others – as if by the Law of
Attraction, he became the man he wanted to be when he was just a boy in one of
the desolate and sleepy towns you could ever imagine in this planet.
Just like most of
us, Jay came from humble beginning. He was able to achieve his success in
life from stumbling, learning and making use of what valuables he already
possesses. He regards to giving value for others and helping them achieve
their own successes in life. I give my highest respect to man like Jay
because of his passion to teach and share success principles to people who are
willing to start creating positive changes with their life.
THE ATTITUDES OF A SELF-MADE MILLIONAIRE
1) HAVE A VISION!
Start with and
believe in a VISION. No
matter what this VISION is, it all begins with an IDEA of what you want to do
in your life, and then keep that VISION always with you forever! In doing so,
you begin to become crystal-clear on your VISION.
2) HAVE PASSION!
You don’t simply
have a purpose –
you must believe in that purpose with all your heart and mind. You carry a core
conviction that keeps you committed, focused and take full responsibility of
your purpose. No matter what obstacles you face, you truly believe on what you
are trying to accomplish is the most important thing you could be doing. You
will then attract the right Mentors and the right Mastermind Group around you
who will accelerate your success!
3) JUST DO IT AND CREATE RESULTS!
This allows the
first two attitudes to be translated in action. Hard work – pure sweat, stamina and discipline will
create success stories. You work for work and always for fun. But, above all,
you work to achieve you purpose and to carry out your truest passions!
For a final note,
he has shared his favourite success quote:
“If an egg is
broken by an outside force a life ends. If an egg opens from within a life
begins. Success Secrets Begins from Within!” ~ Jay McLean
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